Just because you date a Christian guy, doesn't mean that you won't end up in an abusive relationship. Ephesians 5:25 says, Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church... If your boyfriend is not treating you with respect when you're dating, there's no way he's going to change when you're married. Girls who end up in abusive relationships often have self-esteem issues and have trouble breaking the cycle. But you are a child of God and he wants so much more for you. The Christianity Today website says that girls should be aware of a guy who:
Short and sweet inspirations for Christian teen girls.